falling in love...in a coffee shop

I think that possibly maybe I'm fallin' for you.
Yes there's a chance that I've fallen quite hard over you.
I've seen the path that your eyes wander down,
I wanna come too.
I think that possibly maybe I'm fallin' for you.

No one understands me quite like you do,
Through all of the shadowy corners of me.

I never knew just what it was
about this ol' coffee shop I love so much.
All of the while, I never knew.
I never knew just what it was
about this 'ol coffee shop I love so much.
All of the while, I never knew.

I think that possibly maybe I'm fallin' for you.
Yes there's a chance that I've fallen quite hard over you.
I've seen the waters that make your eyes shine,
now I'm shinin' too!
Because, oh because, I've fallen quite hard over you.

If I didn't know you, I'd rather not know.
If I couldn't have you, I'd rather be alone

I never knew just what it was
about this ol' coffee shop I love so much.
All of the while, I never knew.
I never knew just what it was
about this ol' coffee shop i love so much.
All of the while, I never knew.

All of the while, all of the while, it was you.

when one door closes another one opens...

so today was my last day at work. the waitress got me a cake! it was awesome! they're made up of little cupcakes. buuuttt i managed to drop all of it...heh seems like the dumbass me thing to do right? lol well yah and then one of the girls got me flowers and balloons. it was sweet :) i felt special heh...i said bye to everyone today and i realized that another phase of my life has ended. they got me a card and everyone signed it! it's a great memoribilia for my 3 months there. here are some picture from today. (there is one thing that girls are good at...remembering to do something special) tips were really good this weekend and i very much enjoyed working my last two days and coming home with $100+. all in all...it was a great experience and i wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. now i'm just waiting for the next phase to start...

the things we lost in the fire...

so one of my friend's houses burned down in the recent san diego fires. we actually went down to san diego and hung out with him today. it was another weekend of sarcasm, excess food, and an unexplained attraction i still don't understand. so the rest of the neighborhood was fine except for the 2 houses that burned down in that community. the fire came into their backyard at 4am, all they could get out was a car and a basket of clothes. it was surreal, the wind blew silently picking up the debris littering the floor that used to be his house. we looked that all the things that were still there trying to identify each object as if knowing would make us feel like we could understand the feeling of losing everything you ever owned. the van, the fridge, the camera with it's lens still intact, the washer and dryer barely holding up it's shape. nothing was salvageable...and when he talked about his parents, their screaming and their tears as they sped away from their house leaving their memories behind to burn in the fire. i can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to wake up in the middle of the night and find my backyard on fire. what would i bring? what would i run for?

PS: Did you know that even though your house burns down you still have to pay your home Owner's Association fee? Fucked UP!

consumer madness: black friday sales

"don't you get it? i want to go to sleeeeeeeep" - alan
getting ready for a crazy night out in the cold.
talking over our lists and dividing the work to maximize efficiency and cut the time we actually have to spend fighting over things, pushing with people, and standing in line.
camping outside best buy thursday 11/22/07.
black friday started early this year...we set up our tent on wednesday night. it was a very eventful time although most of thanksgiving was spent inside a tent, it was still fun to hang out with my friends. it was cold so i was hiding under the blanket. some guy even threatened to beat alan up calling him a little punk and stuff. but of course we would have gotten his back...kick that stupid white nazi's ass. i hate white people that think they can regulate everyone. i ended up getting a sony vaio VGN-NR110E/S. upgraded the ram to 2.5 GB. it runs a little better now. and i got a sony cybershot.

new year...new lists

it's thanksgiving again...so i guess i should say thanksgiving. another year is passing swiftly by, i'm just reflecting on the things i am thankful for. i'm still contemplating this...i'll update this as soon as i figure it out.

chasing the light: visions of eternity

sometimes i lay in bed listening to the wind blow through the chimes hanging outside the window and think of all the things we don't really get to appreciate on a day to day basis. the gentle ocean breeze against your face as you walk along the beach, sand between your toes, scent of sea salt in your nose, and the feeling that there is so much more to life than our 9-5 jobs. curling up in bed reading a great book, laying on the grass at the top of the hill in order to watch the stars sparkle in the sky. (not that you can actually enjoy this in LA but...not the point) i think in our fast paced world, we don't really take any time to enjoy ourselves and chase after our dreams. we're always worried about what we have to do next. but generally we don't do it for ourselves, we do it because other people want us to, it looks more impressive on paper, it's the only way to make a lot of money, etc... high school --> college --> graduate school --> career/marriage --> kids --> their education and so on...when do we ever stop? i mean just stop!!! take a break. do something fun!

"Whose to know if your soul will fade at all
The one you sold to fool the world
You lose your self-esteem along the way
Good god, you're coming up with reasons
Good god, you're dragging it out
Good god, it's the changing of the seasons..."

enjoy the company of friends, have some coffee and talk about anything without worrying about whether the other person is bored. currently i am at a point in my life where i know i have to go and do something big. i am tired of the monotony of every day life, and worrying about the life my parents want me to lead. i want to see the world, i want to take the time to appreciate everything. i hate filling my voids with expensive things i can't really afford, which is why i just want to leave everything and go.

"Fake it if your out of direction
Fake it if you don't belong
Fake it if you feel like affection
Whoa, your such a fucking hypocrite"

and when i come back, i want to finally chase the dream i gave up when i got into Berkeley...the idea that there could be something other than just routine, crunching numbers, science majors, medical school, pharmacy applications, LSATs, MCATs, PHDs, and focus on something i enjoy doing. music cures everything for me, it's something that helps me reflect, scream to, cry to, relate to, and feel like someone out there has felt the same thing before. sometimes there are just perfect lyrics that you find brings you out of the rut you never thought you could get up from and it feels great. i have a dream i want to chase and after korea i hope that i'll have figured out if it is really what i want from life or if i'm just a fucking hypocrite.

"You should know that the lies won't hide your flaws
No sense in hiding all of yours
You gave up on your dreams along the way
Good god, you're coming up with reasons
Good god, you're dragging it out
Good god, it's the changing of the seasons
It feels so great, so follow me down and just...fake it."
-Fake It (Seether)

my partner in crime: mi hermana aka "the weirdo"

i wanna be a guitar hero...

" You show us everything you've got
You keep on dancin' and the room gets hot
You drive us wild, we'll drive you crazy
You say you wanna go for a spin
The party's just begun, we'll let you in
You drive us wild, we'll drive you crazy
You keep on shoutin', you keep on shoutin'
I wanna rock and roll all nite and party every day"
-Rock n' Roll All Night (KISS)

a beautiful dream...

i got to go to a food tasting the other night aboard the Crystal in Newport Beach.

it was amazing...the scenery was beautiful even though all you could see were other boats docked along the ports. it gave you an inclination to dream of what it would be like if the party were to set sail. my cousin is having her wedding on one of these yachts and i'm sad i can't be there. the 2nd floor is a lounge with a dance floor and a bar.

it got me to thinking about having a masquerade on board when i come back from korea. it would be a live band/dj and cash bar. entrance fee of probably $20 and all you can eat dinner/appetizer on silver platters.

it will be elegant, it will be classy, and then of course the party would really start and it will be wild and exciting as we set sail watching the sun drop slowly below the horizon giving the sky a light pink color.

dreaming keeps the nightmares, stress, and negative feelings from welling up so i'm always thinking up new ways to distract myself. i think this...would be the perfect end to my trip to the other side of the world."Come on, come out
The weather is warm
Watching the sky
Watching a painting coming to life"
-Come On, Come Out (A Fine Frenzy)

when all is said and done

so i finally got my diploma today...it was kinda weird. i was like omg...my diploma! cause you know...people frame that stuff! anyway, i sent it off to korea.

update: they received the diploma...now i'm awaiting visa processing. wish me luck and say your goodbyes because a month is sooner than you think.

funny how one of the people i wanted to see the most before i leave won't actually even consider making time for me. weird how we always want what we can't have. but oh well life goes on, once i get there everything i know is forgotten again.

side note: been practicing guitar, alternate picking, scales, chord changes, etc...i'm going to get great in korea, start a band when i come back or even when i'm there, take recording school classes when i get back to the states and beat the man who called me his protege at his own game. i'm young and i have a lot of time to improve my skills, we'll get on youtube, send out demos, and eventually make our own album. but until then...metronome = 165 today for blues scales. picking speed and accuracy improving. fuck you! i'm gonna rock just you wait.

more than who we are

"Here’s to the time
The good and the bad
Here’s to the ones you never forget
Here’s to the year that we had"
-New Year's Resolutions (Graham Colton)

i think i live too much of my life living in the past. i like to reminisce a lot about things from chapters of my life that ended long ago. i don't know why i still hang onto memories and feelings as if everything were still the same as before, like time stopped for me to grow up and when i went back i thought it was still supposed to be just the way i left it but of course it's not. people have become different, friends grow apart, break ups occur and we learn our lessons and it helps us shape who we are. i should be closing the book on my life in the music industry and start thinking about the journey i'm about to embark on that will start an entire new section of my life. high school is over, college is over, life as we used to know it...is over.

i'll be in a new country where i am the "fob" and the foreigner that people talk crap about and stare at. i'll be a teacher to many many students, i'll be a friend keeping in touch and sending gifts from afar, i'll be growing in ways that i never imagined possible. but in order to start that, i have to let go of the past.

"Now yesterday is too far away
It’s the end of the road
Let it go"
-Let it Go (Graham Colton)

the good ol' days when every weekend was spent in hollywood venues listening to am radio or trapt play live, when dinner at shakey's with rivers and holding his cell phone was the highlight of my year, when flying out to virginia for a concert and greyhounding it to the next one was actually the stupidest thing i've done to date, when driving to sherman oaks to get guitar lessons was all i could look forward to, when falling in love didn't break your heart, when all your dreams and aspirations seemed possible because i was at a naive young age, when a mere thank you line in a cd made me smile for days....sooo many things from the past still flood my head from time to time and many times i wonder if i'll ever be that excited again, if i'll fall in love again, if i'll see "him" again, if anyone would call me to ask if i got guitar hero yet, if anyone would bring me tea at work, if my heart would stop hurting, if i'll grow up and be successful...i need to stop that and grasp onto what i have now rather than reliving the past.

the next chapter: moving on...the road to bigger and better things

"And even though the moment passed me by
I still can't turn away
'Cause all the dreams you never thought you'd lose
Got tossed along the way
And letters that you never meant to send
Get lost or thrown away"
-Name (Goo Goo Dolls)

"And scars are souvenirs you never lose

The past is never far
Did you lose yourself somewhere out there
Did you get to be a star
And don't it make you sad to know that life
Is more than who we are"

a long long time ago...

i am amused by the way i used to dress...oh high school days. i'm so glad they're over haha. but this was i don't remember when but this is me, Brian (weezer), and judy! from back in the day at the glasshouse! wow...it certainly has been a walk down memory lane this week.